Addicted to Sex, Lust, Trashy Lingerie, and BJs
Yeah, that’s me. And those are my four addictions. Oh, how I love them!! *lusty grin*
When I posted on Facebook earlier this week about my recent sexy lingerie purchases, I got a comment from one of my fans that made me think about this.
Readers often assume I buy sexy, trashy lingerie for Wes. Nah. The truth is the man isn’t into lingerie. In fact, he thinks my obsession is silly. No, I’m not kidding.
So I buy trashy lingerie for ME. That’s right. Like all my addictions, it makes me happy. And anything that makes me happy is something I’m gonna do a LOT.
You know what this means, right? If you love sexy lingerie, but you haven’t bought any lately because you don’t have a man in your life or your guy doesn’t appreciate it, I just gave you the green light, girlfriend! Hit some sales and stock up. Buy sexy lingerie for yourself. There is tremendous freedom in taking control of your own pleasure. And this is just one way to do it.
Hey, I learned decades ago the only person who is gonna make me happy is me. So I enjoy and indulge in all my addictions because they make ME happy. Period. My enjoyment of them is not based on whether the man in my life gets the same amount of pleasure from them. Why? Because, ultimately, he’s responsible for his own pleasure. Not me. Co-dependency is such a drag, ya know?
That also goes for my addictions to sex, lust, and BJs. I indulge as often as I can because they make me happy. The cool thing is when I’m happily fucking or consumed with lust or giving a BJ, the man in my life is pretty happy, too. Funny how that works… *sex-obsessed grin*
If this makes sense to you then go for it! Be selfish like me. Be greedy. Be lusty. Be an empowered woman who goes after her own pleasure just because it makes her happy.
Who cares of some people call these kinds of addictions a “sin”? Damnation is such a snooze, ya know? If you ask me, this is just another ploy to keep wild women from having fun.
So go forth and sin, girlfriends! Hit those lingerie sales. Take control of your pleasure. What are you waiting for?
Being a selfish slut is major fun. Hey, just ask me… *sinfully happy grin*
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Paranormal Erotica & Romance Novelist
(Witches, Shapeshifters, Vampires)
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January 8th, 2010 at 4:13 pm
Amen girl!!!! We are the only ones who are in total control of making ourselves happy! And, as long as it harms none, go for it!!! I love that you buy lingerie for yourself despite if Wes is into it or not. Women need to feel sexy, beautiful and desireable and buying sexy clothes, shoes, lingerie, etc that makes you look good is the way to do it! Pampering myself is NEVER a sin in my book! Like you, I don't care what others think. I'm so sick of feeling like such a horriblSuch a pitty that some men were afraid of a woman's sexual power! Just fear tactics and guilt trips! OK, enough of my rant. LOL. I'm glad your cleared that one up!
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
Uh Oh. I posted a comment, but it replied that the "administrator" would have to review it before posting it publically, but now it's gone. Did I do something wrong?
January 8th, 2010 at 4:53 pm
I found it! Sometimes it changes settings and makes me approve comments. I have it set so anyone can post a comment, but it has a mind of its own sometimes (gee, must be my site, ya know?! *lmao!!). Just let me know whenever that happens, and I will go in and find it.
January 8th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Love your comment!!!! You already know I agree 100% with you, girlfriend!!! Who cares what anyone thinks? Even your guy. Do what feels good for YOU, and enjoy every minute of it. Otherwise, you could be waiting around for your entire life. HORRORS! What a snooze.
January 8th, 2010 at 6:36 pm
This morning I went out and sinned big time…you'll very proud of me ….Kohls is having thier buy one get one sale…OH DAMN!!! I couldnt just get one of anything now could I???? Nope and I got not only a pair of boots and shiny red heels but two more silky nighties to add to my overflowing dresser! And scarf or two…I am a sucker for scarves… one is a ruffly very fuzzy/soft yarn with lots of purple in it and then I couldnt let that sale go to waste so I bought a silky black/purple one….so I didnt really need that yellow leather purse but it looked so good with that wallet ….well ….its all about the accents.And you're 100% correct that you have to make yourself happy first cause 'if momma aint happy,aint nobody gonna be happy' and today momma is very happy…so much so I even called David and asked him to please come home very early as I need help fixing something in my closet and it just wont wait till bedtime…His response was "are you talking to Laura today?'
January 8th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
Oh thank Goddess! I thought I said something inappropriate. LMAO!!! Hey Carol, I'm proud of you too!
January 8th, 2010 at 8:01 pm
Never fear, Cynthia. Nothing you could ever say is inappropriate on my website. In fact I'm not even sure what that word means. Does not compute, ya know? LMAO!!!
January 8th, 2010 at 8:00 pm
LMAO!!!! Alrightyyyyy, Carol!! Now I not only have you and David chasing each other around the bedoroom (when he's not in the doghouse…which is a lot since you met me) but you are spending his bucks like water for the sake of your own happiness. Love it!!!! You did good, girlfriend!! Yeah, tell David this one is my fault too. *laughing like crazy*
Okay, gotta go take more pics of myself in the new lingerie I bought ysterday. Is life FUN or what?!!
January 8th, 2010 at 8:22 pm
I'm so glad to hear that!
Cause when it comes to the topic of sex, the juicier the better. "naughty grin."
January 9th, 2010 at 2:46 am
Ok the title is perfect, it so fits you!!!! But i have to say that i think you are the Queen of wild, and it is fun to hear of all the wild things you do. So for sharing I Thank You!!!
Well i have learned that i Like Lingerie, SEX, and BJs, which does make me HAPPY (and my honey also). Yes I agree 100% we are the makers of our on joy!!!;) I am not a young girl anymore(nor am i old), so I am trying to do all the things i was to shy to do as a young girl or woman. I find it very freeing to my soul!!!! I think we need guidance at times to help out with finding ourself. I really did not know this person was inside me. I just wonder how many other women dont know that they have a sexy side too. I cant even explain how it really makes me feel, but it is very NICE!!
January 9th, 2010 at 3:18 am
Thanks, Beach! I'm glad you enjoyed this post. Yeah, the title is totally me. I can just imagine what people will say when it shows up on Google. Too funny!
Good for you!!! And I know your honey is loving the new sexy side of you. Like who wouldn't? Duh! I mean, you're gorgeous, and it's high time you indulged your luscious bod in sexy lingerie. I can only imagine how much fun your honey will have buying some of this stuff for you. BTW, do you have a "Body Shop" (Body Central) in your mall? LOVE that place. You wouldn't believe all the sexy corsets, bustiers, etc., they have there in purple satin, black lace, any sensual color you can imagine. Great stuff. That's where I got my black chiffon ruffled short skirt this week. Took pics of it today.
Yeah, I agree. I think lots of women have buried the sexy part of themselves because they can't imagine she exists. Guess I'll just have to free her for them, ya know? Hard work, but somebody's gotta do it. *wicked grin*
January 9th, 2010 at 3:32 am
Yes someone has to free them and you can do it!!!! I dont know if we have that shop at the mall, we dont live close to the mall and i can not tell you the last time was there. But i do think i need to find out and then go shopping. O lala black chiffon skirt, with corsets. I would be all set to have fun!! *Licking My Naughty Lips*
Thanks for saying that i am gorgeous, Tim is the only one that has ever said that to me. So to have you say it makes me feel GOOD!!
January 9th, 2010 at 3:49 am
Well, it's true. Get used to it, girlfriend! And your new user pic at FB proves it. I know Tim will agree with me about that.
January 9th, 2010 at 4:05 am
Thanks!!!