Cyber-Sex 101
I thought I’d write a blog post today on cyber-sex, since my readers/fans often ask me about it, and yesterday was no exception.
Everyone knows I LOVE cyber-sex, and I absolutely adore my cyber-sex guys. Those gorgeous men truly brighten my day. Oh, how I love cyber-fucking them (yummy!). But I digress… *lusty grin*
I have to admit the first time I heard the term "cyber-sex" years ago, my reaction was less than enthusiastic. Sex online sounded like a real snooze to me. I mean, what’s all the fuss was about, ya know? But that’s only because I didn’t understand it.
So what is cyber-sex? Cyber-sex is generally a playtime activity for oversexed people. There are lots of ways to cyber-sex, including email, PMs, camming, IMs, etc. The wonderful thing about cyber-sex is you make up the rules and decide what works best for you. Can’t get any better than that, right? Cyber-sex usually begins with light flirting. Then moves on to heavy flirting and sex.
If you’re married, cyber-sex is a great way to safely burn off excess sexual energy. If you’re single, you may end up finding the love of your life. Really. It happens all the time on the web.
This is the way I describe cyber-sex. For married people it’s an affair on paper, the one you’ll never have in real life. If you’re single, the sex you have on paper could morph into a wonderful love relationship in real life. Like I said, it happens all the time.
Now that you know what cyber-sex is, how do you find someone to cyber-fuck? Most people belong to social networking sites. Many of these sites allow you to build a "friends list" and join groups where you can interact with people of similar interests. In the course of meeting and chatting with these people you’ll run across a few who turn you on (oh, yes, you will! *naughty grin*).
That means your social networking sites are the best places to look for cyber-sex partners. If you’re outgoing like me, this isn’t a problem. Horny, pervy guys contact me every day. But if you’re shy, you may have no idea which of your friends are into cyber-sex. In that case, send out a message to your friends list, asking about cyber-sex. You’ll be surprised how many people respond. Then it’s simply a matter of hooking up with those who interest you.
I cyber-sex daily with two regular guys and three part-time guys. I do it through email and PMs, creating fantasy locations where we can cyber-fuck in every possible way. Yummy! No wonder I adore my cyber-sex guys, right? Dear Goddess, we have lots of sexy FUN!!!
But notice what I said. Cyber-sex is a fantasy. That means it’s important to keep your sexy play in perspective (unless you’re single and agree to take it to the real-life level).
Cyber-sex is also creative, which brings me to the next question. What do you say in cyber-sex? In this kind of play you’ll not only express how you feel emotionally and physically, but you’ll also introduce a variety of locations and sexual positions. You can even bring in imaginary people for a ménage. If you’re into kink, you can add those elements as well. The sky is the limit with cyber-sex. Truly.
If you’d like to give cyber-sex a shot, find a someone among your friends who likes the same kind of sex you do. For example, I’m an exhibitionist and a voyeur, so I always add a bit of kink to spice up my cyber-sex. Sometimes I’ll add ménage and light bondage for a change of pace. But basically, I’m a frisky fuck, so I enjoy playing with happily married, oversexed men who are into frisky fucking and LOTS of it. *lusty grin*
Okay, those are the basics of cyber-sex.
Oops! Gotta run. One of my cyber-sex guys just checked in. Looks like I’m about to be cyber-fucked for the day. Oh, how I love it!!!!
xoxo
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
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