Have You Had Your Laugh for the Day?

I’m a very affectionate, romantic person (Gee, what a surprise, huh?). So it’s no great mystery I have a hard time sitting next to my husband without touching him (or fondling him). I’m talking about in the privacy of our home, not in public (okay, maybe sometimes *naughty smile*). But I can’t help it! I’m constantly horny, and his body is just irresistible to me. Yeah, I crave it.

This question is for all my oversexed readers. Ladies, how any times every week does this happen to you? You suggest your fav “playtime activity,” and your husband looks at you, narrows his eyes, and says: “You’re killing me.” Or how many times do you snuggle next to your hubby, your hands are drawn to those yummy parts of his body, only to be snatched or batted away in midair. And your hubby says: “Oh, no, you don’t!” This happens to me a couple of times a week. And we usually end up wrestling and giggling like high school kids. Cracks me up!

Still, I never understand it. Hey, I’m open to stroking and fondling twenty-four hours a day. Aren’t you? Absolutely! No complaints from me about that. I’m just wondering if this is a personal thing or common among all oversexed women.

Every sensual act brings me pleasure. Period. It doesn’t have to lead to the big O every time (Although I’m not stupid, right? No way am I turning down an O or two or three if the opportunity presents itself *lusty grin*).

Maybe it’s just me. I’m not a completion freak, and I love the ride as much as the destination. What about you? At any rate, I’ve known my husband for over 30 years, and I’ve been laughing the entire time. Now you know one reason why. *wicked smile*

xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
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_diet_coke Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 12:39 pm

I get batted away and shut down more often than I care to admit…I just seem to be always switched on and he isn’t. He thinks I obsess…maybe I do.

_diet_coke Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 1:23 pm

BTW, I ordered the first book in your Witchery Series online yesterday…can’t wait to read it.

lindsayallison1 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 1:48 pm

I get that a lot too. Barret is constantly telling me is too tired and batting me away.

Sometimes, I sneak into the bathroom when he’s in the shower so I can get a peek at the good stuff all wet…

Excuse me for a moment.

…

Back! But it happens to me too, all the time. I’m not really sure when the roles were reversed and suddenly the men are the ones “with a headache” and excuses like that.

Altho, for anyone reading. I read once that sex is actually good for a headache…so tell that to your partner next time you want to get naughty!

laura_stamps8 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 4:11 pm

Oh, how funny! Well, I’m glad to hear I am not alone in this. But obsessing about sex is a good thing, isn’t it? I think so. But then I would, wouldn’t I? *wicked smile*

laura_stamps8 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 4:14 pm

Awesome news! Thanks for telling me you ordered the book. Hearing that makes my day (big smile)!!

You will love this series. The first novel is empowering and Witchy. And the second novel is empowering and Witchy and romantic and sexy. Big fun! Can’t wait to hear what you think about it.

laura_stamps8 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 4:16 pm

Oooh, the shower. I am lethal in the bathroom. I can’t tell you how many times I have attacked my husband when he steps out of the shower. But who can resist a sparkly clean man? Not me, that’s for sure! *naughty smile*

_diet_coke Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 4:46 pm

I let you know what I think after reading=)

bookaddict2 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 6:25 pm

Sadly, I get batted away or told “I’m so tired” or “I have a headache” (of course, with the botox that’s no longer valid…haha!) or “You’re wearing me out” more often than I would care to admit.

You know growing up I always heard about how men wanted sex all the time. I don’t know where these men are but most of my friends are in the same boat with me…they want it all the time and the guy is for whatever reason not in the mood.

So, I think there are a lot of us oversexed women out there with men whose libido doesn’t quite match.

One friend told me once that she wished she could use sex as a motivator (not weapon) on her man, but that he went without it for so long that it doesn’t necessarily bother him as much as it does her. How fair is that?

Anyways, I don’t have too many complaints…like I said I get multiple Os every time and well frankly the sex is just plain amazing! I also spiced up the wardrobe with some more revealing outfits to get his mind where it should be more often (on me!) and then his hands are sure to follow Also, I have started with teasing him and leaving little notes throughout the day so that by the time he gets home, we’re both hot and bothered! And showers, yeah, I like to conserve water

Is it hot in here!?!?!

laura_stamps8 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 8:06 pm

Okaaaaaay. Now we know, don’t we? We’re not alone in this dilemma. On the one hand, I’m happy to know there are lots of you out there being batted away, and that it isn’t just me. Whew! On the other hand, what’s up with that untrue rumor about men always wanting sex? I grew up with that one too. Not fair!

And where is Dean? We need a man’s opinion about this. Dean, where are you???? Speak!!

Now let’s get down to business, Melissa. I want to know about those new revealing outfits of yours. Are we talking teddies, bustiers (a personal fav of mine), thongs, etc.? And where in Columbia did you buy them? Give me details, girlfriend! I’m more of the I’d-rather-be-naked type. But I’m always interested in hearing about sexy lingerie. Research for my novels, ya know? Dear Goddess, how I love research!! *wicked grin*

bookaddict2 Says:
July 16th, 2008 at 10:16 pm

Okay…revealing outfits. It all started when I began hanging out with a good friend of mine who consistently wore low-cut revealing tops to accentuate her large breasts. Well, mine are quite as big as hers but my cleavage is quite nice All our guy friends used to stare at her breasts all the time and yes I caught the hubby a time or two (not his fault, they were out there to be seen).

So, I started incorporating very nice, very low-cut cleavage enhancing shirts into the wardrobe. Hubby ate that one up! He never looks at anyone’s cleavage but mine. Also, got a couple of more form fitting pants that leave little to the imagination and he was pleased there also. Then I purchased some thongs and g-strings and made sure he was watching when I put them on and then when we went out he had to think about what I was wearing the entire time and he went nuts over it!

Then I started with lingerie…just a little here and there. Nothing trashy because that’s not his style…he likes the lacy ones that preview his upcoming attractions! Most of them are lacy with underwire bras to enhance the cleavage. His favorite is the one that the bra cups are able to be unattached in the front for easy access.

Now, I have moved on to my summer tops. For some reason, I am really in to the tops that are either halter style or just don’t require a bra. He is loving that too. I am constantly getting felt up when no one is watching now.

Since I am a plus-size woman, most of what I get comes from Lane Bryant. But my sis has some really nice stuff that she got at Victoria’s Secret that she says works!

Also, I occasionally go to one of the little stores around here…Nancy’s Nook or one of those type and check out to see if they have anything fun there. I’m not too adventurous there yet, but I have tried some of the lotions and such. I do have to say that KY warming gel is very nice!

He also really has a thing for me when I get dressed up in my renaissance fair outfit. He particularly loves the leather corset on me!

And in fact, my cleavage has been photographed by a guy friend of ours at the well-endowed friends birthday party. We happened to be wearing similar black dresses…hers was a halter top and mine was a tank top. This friend can apparently distinguish between hers and mine in the photos (he didn’t take any head shots with them).

So, that’s my story. I fully believe in trying whatever works to keep the passion alive in our marriage. It’s totally worth it

laura_stamps8 Says:
July 17th, 2008 at 10:19 am

Awesome, Melissa! Thanks for all the info…wonderful!

Okay, ladies, pay attention to what Melissa said here. Lots of good tips and wardrobe suggestions. Love it!!

mr_dean_show Says:
July 18th, 2008 at 5:46 pm

well..

I was just in a 13 year relationship with a woman who worked nights,so the timing thing was really hard.(No pun)
and I was ready to go in the evening,and she was raring to go around 2:00 in the morning.
I get up around 5 in the morning..so the wee hours of the morning were never ideal of me..and occasionally I (In deep sleep) would turn her down..but I honestly don’t really remember doing so,because I was asleep..
but..
Otherwise I’m usually raring to go.

Times when I’m not horny.
1.)After an especially fusterating day..although this can be turned around.
2.)RIGHT After a big meal..I have to walk a bit to get to a point where I dont’ feel like the Python with the pig in the middle.
3.)When I’m ill.

Otherwise I’m always pretty ready to go.

I love mornings..waking up on a day off with my love and having no where to go..but..just cuddle and snuggle and make love all day.

I suggest to everyone that they don’t live with someone who works nights and expect a great sex life..it just does not work.

I love women,and I am looking forward to a woman with a large libido.

I imagine that there will be times when I don’t feel like it..but it’s been a long time since I have had a ready willing and able lovers..so who knows..

I think many men are not as horny as they profess to be.

still..I dunno..I think like all women,men’s Libido’s Vary.

When I was young in my early 20’s I had a lover who was in her early 40’s and that was the best sex of my life. She was a powerhouse..and we would just go at it for hours,days..weeks..

That was just…wow.

I still remember her.

Older women are just magnificent.

I also like to Cuddle and kiss..most women think men don’t..but I do love foreplay.

I just can’t see myself not responding to a woman walking around in a revealing outfit..I just would get all hot and bothered.

I also have hot buttons that ALWAYS work with me.

If the woman has long hair and she wears it up and I can see her neck..it’s just an IMMEDIATE turnon..

and if she has short hair and I can see her neck and she flaunts it at me..I just go beserk..

so,I don’t see there being a problem..I get in moods..but if you work it,I can be easily convinced that I AM HORNY after all.

Necks..bitable,suckable,lovely necks..they always get me.

I love women..I adore you all.

laura_stamps8 Says:
July 18th, 2008 at 7:02 pm

Re: well..

Dean, that is absolutely fantastic!! I knew you could add greatly to this discussion. Thanks so much!! I loved everything you said.

Necks, huh? I had to laugh when I read that. Your Vlad is showing. *vampy wink*

Did I ever mention to you I have a friend in her 20s who goes gah-gah for vamps? She told me if she ever met one she would draw a bull’s eye on her neck and then flash him with it. Your kinda girl, huh? Not to mention she is gorgeous…beautiful long red hair, bright green doe eyes, pale pale skin, off-the-charts-wacko personality. What’s not to love, right?

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