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How to Become a Sex Goddess

There’s a popular thread on the Amazon Sex forum right now about breast size, and what most men consider "sexy."  Several of the women who’ve posted there have been less than thrilled with the size of their breasts, thinking they’re too large or too small to be considered sexy.
 
Here’s the deal, Ladies. It doesn’t matter what size your breasts are.  Really.  What matters is how you feel about your entire bod.

Do you want to look sexy to men, like the foxiest thing men have ever seen?  Then fall in love with your bod.  If you want to enhance it a little, great.  Enhancement includes makeup, adopting a healthy diet and exercise regimen, hair color, breast enhancement/reduction, you name it.  What’s important is you do these things for YOU.  Don’t do them for a man.  That’s a losing proposition.  Do what you can to make your bod one YOU will love. 

 
And the things you can’t change?  Learn to love them too, because there’s no such thing as perfect.

The truth is sexiness is not about enhancement.  Sexiness is 100% attitude.  I’m lucky to have grown up in the Deep South, because we’re very European down here (much like French and Italian women).  From the time we’re little girls Southern Belles are taught how to strut our stuff, no matter what our bods look like.  And men love it.

So change what you can for YOU, and then learn to love what you can’t change.  Yeah, some people might call this a selfish attitude, but men love that kind of "selfishness."  Trust me.  They adore a woman who is confident in her "beauty." 

 
Back to breast size and sexiness.  Like I’ve said before, I have small breasts (between an A and a B).  But I’ve never heard men complain about them, whether I’m wearing clothes or not.  In fact most men tell me they think my breasts look perfect.  And being the selfish slut that I am, I go with it and enjoy every minute of it.  *naughty grin*

My "addictions"and my attitude toward them make me more appealing to men, so I also consider them "enhancements."  As many of you know, I’m addicted to sex, sexy lingerie, lust, and cocks.  So my addictions are part of my "sexy attitude," which obviously attracts men.  However, make no mistake.  I’m addicted to these things for ME.  If men also groove on it, hey, all the better. *lusty grin*

So think selfish, ladies!  Love your bod first, and men will love it too.  That’s SEXY!!

xoxo
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)

 


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2 Responses to “How to Become a Sex Goddess”

  1. stefanie_bean Says:
    March 12th, 2009 at 2:48 pm

    Excellent points. Reminds me of that song from The Producers – “If you’ve got it, flaunt it!” :D

  2. laura_stamps8 Says:
    March 12th, 2009 at 7:31 pm

    Absolutely!!

    xoxo
    Laura Stamps
    Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
    http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
    http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)

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