How to Seduce a Man….Let Me Count the Ways!
I was talking with a friend the other day who would like to seduce her husband into having sex more frequently. He’s one of those guys who might have a low testosterone count or something. So I gave her a few tips on how to seduce him. Then I started thinking about the readers of this blog, and what you do to get your yummy guys “in the mood.”
Okay, ladies, here’s your chance to tell all (naughty grin). When you’re horny and your husband/boyfriend isn’t, what is your fav way to seduce him so you can have your wicked way with him???
As you all know, I’m married to an Uber-Alpha, so the “General Patton” offense works best for me (attack, attack, attack…). I am relentless, persistent, and totally wanton. Well, that was until I started wearing Realm and using sex pheromones in my seduction plan. Now it’s more like he attacks, and I surrender shamelessly ASAP (lusty grin).
What sexual seduction methods work best for you? Do you use props (sexy lingerie, candles, perfume, food, etc.)?
Time to spill, ladies. Inquiring minds want to know! *wicked smile*
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
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August 6th, 2008 at 1:23 pm
I do a combination of things. The biggest thing I do is tell dirty stories. Evidently I’m quite good at it and it gets him going pretty fast.
What I like to do is tell him a dirty little story and kind of half perform the things I’m talking about. For instance, I’ll trail my fingers over his lips if I’m talking about kissing him in the story…make sense? I make him imagine/remember what it would feel like if my lips were on his lips, etc…
Yeah, he’s totally putty in my hands if I start with that. It’s hot and it works.
August 6th, 2008 at 1:27 pm
Awesome! What kind of dirty stories? Stories about him? Or stories about other people? Or stories you make up with make-believe people? I need more details…spill..!!! LOL
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
August 6th, 2008 at 2:41 pm
Oh I tell dirty stories about a lot of different things. Usually about him and me, sometimes I’ll tell a dirty story about a threesome (not something I’m into actually trying…but whatever) with an attractive celebrity or someone we might know.
The stories are all over the place. Sometimes they can be about having sex in a naughty place. He is really into comic books, so sometimes I’ll tell a story where I’m one of the female superheros…stuff like that.
I sometimes pretend I’m the naughty nurse, teacher, etc…
I once did a story about him and this girl he used to know (way before I came into the picture). She was his “one that got away” type of girl, she was someone he met while he was with his ex gf, and him being a decent guy wasn’t going to cheat on his then gf, but he was VERY attracted to this other girl. So one time I told him a story about him and her…wow, that one was totally hot.
Let me tell you, it takes a lot of imagination to tell a bunch of stories and not have them sound exactly alike.
But like I said, what really gets it hot, is describing a particular sex act. Take oral sex, for example, I will tell a story and start describing the act, but I obviously can’t perform oral sex while telling a story, so I’ll trail my fingers lightly over his dangly bits and it drives him wild…because then I’ll tell him to imagine the real thing…ooh it’s such a tease!
For me, teasing seems to work best. Light touches, whispers, that kind of thing. It gets him so hot!
August 6th, 2008 at 6:14 pm
Ah, you do dirty talk in story form. Love it!! Yeah, that’s really hot…good thinking!!
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
August 6th, 2008 at 7:56 pm
Okay, I am like you…the Patton form generally works best…persistence usually wins out
Of course any mention of oral stimulation usually makes him stand at attention!
Other than that, I have found lingerie works wonders. He also adores my Ren Faire outfit and went wild once after we came home from the Ren Faire!
Also a little touching on his dangly parts usually brings things to life
And flashing him a bit of view of cleavage on occasion gets his juices flowing too!
Lately, since I have been sick, he’s been all about wanting to have sex! I can’t wait until I am feeling well enough to jump his bones
August 6th, 2008 at 9:20 pm
Oral stimulation makes him “stand at attention,” huh? You crack me up!! Yup, groping the dangly parts always works. Wish I had cleavage to flash, you lucky girl! I just have to rip off my shirt…that usually gets his attention.
What’s up with men wanting to have sex when you are sick? I had an old boyfriend once who got mad at me when I wouldn’t kiss him or anything else when I had a cold. Maybe it’s all that laying around in a prone position you’ve been doing lately while you are recovering? Who knows?!! Yup, when you’re well again you will have to “make up for lost time” for sure. I love that excuse…one of my favs!
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
August 7th, 2008 at 5:56 pm
Letting him know that under my frumpy housedress is…nothing ^^….oral temptation…green tea spiked with korean ginseng…
August 7th, 2008 at 6:10 pm
Ahh…the old “not wearing any panties” trick. Love it! I forgot all about that one. Thanks!
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
August 7th, 2008 at 6:43 pm
LOL….works better than lingerie for me=)