I’m Back, and I’m Talking Cyber-Sex. Yeah!
That’s right. I’m back. Whew! I’ve been submerged in final edits on one of my erotica novellas since Friday with a new editor. But I turned in the last of it yesterday, so I’m free at last. Yay! Now I can get back to my sex-obsessed life (thank you, thank you, thank you!!!). Which also means I can return to my yummy vamps and finish the first draft of A Vampire’s Kiss. Double-Yay!
Everyone has a different way of dealing with intense stress. Some people yell at everyone, some eat everything in sight, and others get stomachaches. What do I do? Fuck my yummy husband Wes as often as he’ll let me catch him, shop like a maniac for sexy lingerie, and overdose on cyber-sex. Makes me sound like an oversexed slut, doesn’t it? Gee what a surprise! *lusty grin*
Oh, well. Even though my checking account is groaning after my last shopping spree (Tuesday), my closet looks FANTASTIC!! You should see all the gorgeously sexy lingerie I bought. My fav store has been having an awesome sale for the last three weeks, and I bought some killer babydolls and lacy camisoles at unbelievably low prices. I would have stocked up on panties too (like I need more of this stuff *LOL*). But I like to wear silky French cut panties with lots of lace, and all they had were kinda boring cotton panties and panties made from a weird microfiber material that really felt strange to touch. Eew. They even had some with rubber strips around the leg openings to hold them in place. Like what’s up with that? Excuse me, but my ass is not a street, and my panties don’t need "traction" like a new set of tires to hold them in place, ya know? *shakes my head with wonder*
Okay, back to something I can relate to, like cyber-sex. Oh, how I love to be freshly cyber-fucked! Really. Cyber-sex with some of my fav harem men gave me wicked smiles and spiked my libido every night after I finished my editing for the day. One guy in particular really saved me. Have I mentioned how much I love cyber-sex? Oh, right, I did…
Anyway, a few of my readers/fans come to me every month wanting to know how to get started in cyber-sex. I tell them cyber-sex is like sexual role-playing. First, you need to find a guy who likes the same kind of sex you do. For example, if you’re a dom, then you need to look for a sub. If you’re an exhibitionist (raising my hand REALLY high and jumping up and down *naughty grin*), you need to find a guy who enjoys exhibitionist sex as much as you do. Once you find a playmate, you can begin the seduction and go from there. Big fun!
No, I’m not going to list some "examples" of my personal cyber-sex discussions on this blog, so don’t ask. LiveJournal would probably kick me out on my ass so fast I really would need panties with rubber strips and good traction. ROFL
If you’re new to cyber-sex I would suggest going to Craigslist (http://www.craigslist.org). Place an ad for cyber-sex in the "Personals" section of whatever city you choose ("Women Looking for Men" category). After you do that, cruise the Personals in the "Men Looking for Women" category of several states and respond to five or more of those ads. How? When you read an ad from a guy with similar sexual interests, send him a message and tell him you’re interested in cyber-sex. That way you’ll end up with about 3-4 fun guys to play with. This strategy has worked really well for some of my readers/fans, so give it a shot. It should work for you, too.
Now a few of these guys will drop out after a while and move on. That’s a given, so don’t freak over it. But some will stay with you and become good friends, which is a cool bonus. In my case the guys I’ve done cyber-sex with have all come from my harem of men. Like I said, some have moved on, and a few have become very good friends. I always suggest Craigslist because I advertise my erotica novels in the "Books" section, so I know it’s a great source for all kinds of sexual fun.
Some of you may be wondering why I don’t advertise on Craigslist for cyber-sex? All I can say is, "What is wrong with this question?" Duh. I mean, think about it. New men contact me daily when they read my erotic novels or find my slutty postings on LiveJournal, PaganSpace, Goodreads, and the Amazon Sex and Erotica forums. It’s not like I have to go looking for men, ya know? My lusty aura attracts them like bees to honey. Even online. Dontcha love it?!!
Okay, true confession time. The fact I know so many great guys actually works to your advantage. Really. If you’re having a hard time finding a guy to have cyber-sex with, all you have to do is send me an email or a PM at GR. Yeah, I’m also your friendly neighborhood cyber-sex pimp. Gee, what a surprise! *naughty grin*
xoxo
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
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January 29th, 2009 at 5:55 pm
I have a question…
How does your husband handle the cyber-sex?
Mine would cheer me on but I know many many men who would freak out if their wives were even thinking of having cyber-sex with another man.
January 29th, 2009 at 6:46 pm
Re: I have a question…
Actually, Wes loves it. And good for your husband for cheering you on, too!!
But my ex-husband (who shall remain nameless) was on a need-to-know basis on just about everything. Which made him very happy. His policy was that he really didn’t want to know anything about my life, because he found it waaaaay too scary, ya know? ROFL
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
January 29th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
just wanted to say loved your entry today. cyber-sex can def. be a fun way to spend time online. but i never thought about getting to be friends w/ a buddy after. Cool!
January 30th, 2009 at 9:51 pm
Thanks, Kenjii! Yeah, most of the guys I cyber-sex with have become very good friends. Love those guys!
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Erotica and Paranormal Romance Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (excerpts from all of my novels)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)