Marrying the Right Person?
In the mornings I hang out at Linkedin (a social media site for businesspeople). Yeah, I have a blast in their Q&A forum, tormenting everyone with my oversexed sense of humor. Love it! *wicked grin*
One of the questions this week was about marriage. The creator of that thread asked if marrying the right person can determine 90% of your happiness or misery in life?
Hmm. I think the statement "marry the right person" is too vague. I mod and co-mod 7 sex groups on the web at different social media sites. Do I run into a lot of unhappily married people, or what? Yeesh! And some of these people have been married for decades. Shivers!
Personally, I think it’s more important to marry for the "right reason" and to be aware of that reason. You aren’t just marrying the right person. You’re marrying for the right reason. Knowing what that reason is will determine your long-term happiness. No doubt about it.
And don’t kid yourself. We all marry for a reason. It just needs to be the right one for YOU.
For some people the right reason is "love." For others it’s "lust." In my experience those are the two primary reasons people get married.
Unfortunately, too many people think they marry for love. But when the sex dies in their marriages they realize lust was more important to them than love. However in the beginning when they were young, love and lust were wrapped up together, and they didn’t know there was a difference. But now they do.
And don’t tell me marrying for lust is unrealistic because sex fades after 50. Ha! This is 2009. We have testosterone supplements and the little blue pill for men. Plus, there are personal lubes that last up to 4 days for women. Unless you have a medical condition, good sex can last until the day you die if you’re willing to be creative. That means for many people when sex fades after 50 it’s a choice, not a given.
So marry for the right reason. Decide what’s more important to you: love or lust? If you make the right choice, your marriage will be a fulfilling one for the rest of your life. And a happy personal life does make every area of your life richer. No doubt about it.
Okay, I guess you know my reason for getting married. Oh, yeah. I don’t call Wes a sex god for nothing, ya know?
Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrr…! *lusty grin*
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