Oral Sex? Totally Yummy!!
Okay, let’s get serious about one of my fav playtime activities. Oral sex. If you’re been reading this blog, you know I researched oral sex last week on the web. Thing is when you write erotica you need a LOT of sex scenes in a novel or novella. I agree, that’s a verrrrry good thing (lusty grin). But each one has be different (different positions, different locations, different "props," different sexual techniques, etc.). That way they don’t become monotonous or boring (horrors!). This is even trickier if all the sex happens between one couple, meaning no third party ménage, etc. (and in my case I only write very light BDSM in one of my erotica series, not the hard-core stuff).
Thus, my desire to research oral sex, specifically as it pertains to BJs. Even though this is one of my fav playtime activities, I wanted to expand my knowledge for my books. I was certain there were techniques and "hot spots" I didn’t know about. Sure enough I found some awesome info on the web about how to give a great BJ. This article was the best of the bunch and super informative:
I already knew most of what was in it, but I learned lots of anatomy facts I didn’t know. Totally cool. For instance, when you think about giving a good BJ, you think of some form of deep throating technique along with the usual up and down action, right? Imagine my surprise when I learned a man’s shaft actually has very few nerve endings in it. Thus, no "hot spots." Who knew? I know several hot spots on a man’s dangly parts, but wanted to find out if there were more. And that’s exactly what I learned from this article. So if you’re interested in how to give a better BJ to your yummy guy check out this article when you get a chance.
In the meantime, you know what a stickler I am for making sure the sexual info in my novels is "realistic." Yup, I’m looking forward to taking this new BJ info for a "test drive." Maybe tonight. Is my Uber a lucky guy or what?!! *naughty grin*
xoxo
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
Laura Stamps (c)
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
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September 2nd, 2008 at 12:03 pm
No boyfriend currently, but will file this away for future reference, oh yes.
September 2nd, 2008 at 12:12 pm
I know…YOWZA! Cool info for sure, isn’t it?! *wicked grin*
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
September 2nd, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Mmm, definitely one of my favorites! It’s the BEST way to get my Uber in the mood, especially if you jump him right after a shower.
Well that’s a site I’ll check out later when I’m not at work!
September 2nd, 2008 at 6:13 pm
Yup, that’s exactly what I do. Nothing like a clean, sparkly man fresh from the shower. Yum, yum!!
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
September 2nd, 2008 at 6:25 pm
Hehe…one of my fav playtime activities
I’ll definitely have to check the article out for any other tips I don’t know about 
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:27 pm
Okay, so I have to report here that I was highly skeptical of the website’s claim that men have no hot spots. Hubby is particularly sensitive from the tip and down. He gets off on deep throat action and it has nothing to do with my throat giving him head. I retested tonight to see if that were true and I can 100% guarantee that at least for my Hubby, those are his “hot spots.” Imagine his surprise when I told him about the website.
FYI, Hubby was the first and only guy I have ever given a BJ. He claims the first time was so amazing that he knew instantly that there was not another girl for him. (I think he may have even doubted that he was my first for awhile.) Apparently, I am quite good at worshipping at that altar!! He frequently gets to enjoy special sessions where his penis is the star attraction!! And he said my repertoire didn’t need anything added, I apparently was born with the knowledge of how to give an awesome BJ! Yay me!!
September 3rd, 2008 at 10:56 am
Interesting. I know of several hot spots (like that spot of loose skin under the shaft near the glans), but they were listed in the article. I know that moving the skin on the shaft is also a hot spot of sorts, but that was in the article too. I do doubt “tapping” that point where the glans joins the shaft (the underside of the corona where the foreskin was attached) would give an orgasm on its own. Tried that last night, and it didn’t have any effect on my Uber.
But I was also interested in hot spots on the balls, and the article gave me new insight into that, and it worked well last night.
I have a feeling every man is different, the same way every woman is different. I also know things change as men get older (over 40). So I looked at that article as something to try and see what works and what doesn’t. At any rate it was fun research!!!
Hey, I’ll bet when you told your hubby about the article, he may have been surprised about the website but not that I was the one who found it. Leave it to me, right? ROFL
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
September 3rd, 2008 at 11:29 am
Hubby actually asked if you were the author of the website
Then when he realized that there was info that was not quite so accurate, he said that was not possible because you wouldn’t have stated definitively somthing that you had not tested out! I just had to laugh 
September 3rd, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Ha!! The man knows me so well. What a hoot! Well, tell him I am indeed in the process of taking this info for a “test drive” but didn’t want to “deprive” my readers of the delights of doing their own testing.
He should relate since he was the recipient of a “test drive” last night. Lucky, lucky man! And all because his wife knows me and reads my blog. Am I the “Little Miss Sunshine” of erotic fun or what?!! *wicked grin*
xoxo
Laura Stamps
Author of Paranormal Romance and Erotica Novels
http://www.LauraStamps.blogspot.com (to read excerpts from my novel series)
http://laura-stamps8.livejournal.com (my naughty Author Blog/updated daily)
September 3rd, 2008 at 12:30 pm
Hubby was definitely a lucky man last night. He was overjoyed and then exhausted…hehe! He enjoyed his “test drive” very much. And I agree each person is different, what works for one may not be what works for another. I mean, how boring it would be if we all had the exact same “hot spots” … there wouldn’t be any exploration to find those hot spots…it’d be more like wam bam, thank you ma’am. So maybe that site should have a disclaimer that says “Your Mileage May Vary!”
BTW, Check out my blog from yesterday to see my good news